Our story

Victoria laughing with her baby in the city

Our story

Made slowly, by hand, with love.

The original self-love oil, and the woman who pours herself into every bottle.

About Yoni Elixir · Est. 2015

The original self-love oil.

Established in 2015, Yoni Elixir is more than a lubricant or massage oil. It has been designed to cultivate the depth of your sensuality, to support you to live a life of true intimacy, freedom and pleasure. Made specifically for women, with herbs that nourish the yoni and maximise pleasure, to invite true intimacy and deep love.

This luscious formulation is carefully handmade in Northern Rivers, NSW, prepared using the highest quality ingredients and processes to maintain its full integrity. Each element has been uniquely selected for its qualities to nurture and protect your yoni, to safely and deliciously support your practice and your pleasure.

One bottle, many rituals

  • iMassage
  • iiDaily yoni care
  • iiiBreast massage
  • ivWith your crystal wands and eggs
  • vIntimate moments with your lover
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Victoria smiling as she plays her harp

How every bottle is made

I pray to Yoni Elixir.

I play my harp to Yoni Elixir.

I infuse the herbs slowly.

I make it with my hands and love.

— Victoria Bardovic

Victoria Bardovic in a blush suit, seated in a pink velvet chair
She/HerUK bornAustralia livingPansexual

The woman behind the bottle

Meet Victoria

I’ve spent over a decade working in the realms of sexuality, relating and business, and no matter which door I walked through, whether it was helping couples find their way back to each other, guiding someone through sexual trauma, or sitting with a woman building her business, I kept arriving at the same place.

The relationship to ‘self’ is always the first and most important step.

That’s what led me to Yoni Elixir. It was founded in 2015, and when the chance came in 2023 to take it into my own hands, I said yes without hesitation. Now every bottle is handmade by me, a little ritual of love and prayer poured into each one.

Before that, I spent many years on stages, sharing the message of self pleasure and the importance of coming home to the body first. That chapter led me to create my own sexuality school, the Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy, where I trained over 100 practitioners in the globally accredited Self Pleasure Modality I created. The school was sold to American teacher Elizabeth Willis, PhD.

10+ yearsWorking in sexuality, relating and business
100+Practitioners trained in the Self Pleasure Modality
2023Took Yoni Elixir into her own hands
NowBrand strategy for speakers

These days

Magnetic in the bedroom, magnetic on stage.

These days I take everything this work has taught me about sexuality, polarity, magnetism, instinct and business, and I bring it to speakers. I help them build a brand strategy that feels like them, so when they walk into a room or onto a stage, they’re the obvious choice.

Turns out the same thing that makes us magnetic in the bedroom makes us magnetic on stage: knowing who you are, and letting that be felt.

Work with me as a speaker →
Victoria speaking to an audience at a speaker training event

And through it all there’s still Yoni Elixir. My way of helping you stay in touch with the milk and honey at the core of your being. Your capacity to thrive in pleasure, to know your sensuality, and to never let it be forgotten in a world that moves too fast.

May this bottle forever bring you back to your essence, the part of you that stays delicious and alive no matter what.

With love and pleasure,

Victoria x

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